That sexual need runs the show, not the person fulfilling the need, adds Joe Kort, a licensed sexologist out of Michigan. On many levels, he is more likely to see being “bi” primarily as a sexual need.” “Also, if a guy is bi, it is much less likely that he has taken the time to really immerse himself in the gay community or to have a deep exclusive emotional sexual relationship with a man. “These men get all the benefits of being married,” argues Yost.
